Real growth happens when you’re actually so tired of your own sh*t, that you literally see no other way. It’s more instinctive than decisive. You’re going to be really tired of something in your mind before you’re actually done. And when you’re done, you grow.
In order to heal you need to stop pretending it doesn’t hurt. Stop telling yourself that you’re “strong and can take it”. You need to look at the role you play in the situation. You need to understand why it hurts. Understand why the situation is bad. And you need to really dig deep and do some honest realization and self admitting as to why it’s wrong and doesn’t work.
You have to really know deep down that you deserve better so you can consciously stop tolerating it, stop attracting it and can commit to growing without any anxiety, fear and hesitation.
